A woman’s advice for girls choosing technology

A woman’s advice for girls choosing technology

Brenda Cooper is a futurist and author whose day job is a city Chief Information Officer. We interviewed her last week, and she agreed to write about what choosing a tech career means for a woman. She is currently Kickstarting a YA novel.

A woman’s advice for girls choosing technology

I’m 56 years old, and I’ve been in technology for 28 years – I started while I was still in college, working nights and doing computer system backups onto tapes that were both heavy and fragile, and sorting library cards (in those days, each library book had a hard paper card with holes in it that had to be sorted into order before the computer program would read them and process the information about whether or not a library book had been returned on time).  So my career in technology has taken me through some really fascinating changes.

Today, I’m a Chief Information Officer for a city. That means I’m responsible for the computer systems and computers in use by the city staff, and for some of the computer systems we use to reach out to citizens. I use technology primarily to do good in the world (local government does many good things) and to help other people do good in the world. As technology jobs go, my job is important but not overly high-profile. I’m not inventing new things; I’m choosing from among technologies other people have invented and making them work.

Here are some of the advantages I’ve enjoyed because I chose technology as the way I make my living, and which I think you will enjoy if you make the same choice.

  • I have almost never been bored in my jobs.  Technology is an ever-changing field and there are always things to learn. Talk about having a continuous education!
  • There are many places I can work, many choices. Technology if pretty portable.
  • I’ve been able to work with a lot of smart, interesting people. This matters – you spend at least one-third of many days at work, and who you work with matters.
  • It helps me remain competent in the world. It’s important to understand technology and if you work with it, you do keep some skills.
  • I make enough money to do many of the things that matter to me – to travel to talk about my books, to pay for my kid’s college, to go to Italy and Mexico. Right now, I’m paying for a master’s degree in creative writing. One should never choose a career just because it pays well, but it should be one consideration.

I hear a lot of stories about women being discriminated against in tech.  I’ve run into a little of that in my day job, mostly years ago when I worked in aerospace, and I really almost never feel any gender discrimination in my local government job. Many leaders in the city are female, including our elected officials.  Frankly I’ve run into more discrimination in my science fiction writing career.  Besides, the best way to beat discrimination is to succeed. Stay in the conversation, rather than standing outside and whining about being left out.  Be good at what you do, and have fun. You can do that in any field.

If you like technology, it’s a great choice. There are jobs where you can work with many people all day, and jobs where you can soar solo.  There are travelling jobs, and jobs you can do from home. There’s a chance to be an entrepreneur, or to be part of a team. When looking into future job markets, technology is one of the safer bets for a job that can last a lifetime.


Shark Bait: A Talk Like A Pirate Day Menu

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(image credit: Pirate-Flag via openclipart.org)

Along with all of the games we will be playing today, my crew and I are enjoying some swashbuckling inspired foods! Some of these are super easy to throw together and others require some serious prep time (there are time saving as well as gluten free alternatives included with my recipes and suggestions!). Many of the recipes are kid friendly as well so no one has to miss out on the festivities. Our menu includes a full variety of foods ranging from one-handed sandwiches to scurvy fighting fruit salads to a treasure trove of desserts and cocktails (mocktails too!).

Catch of the Day

(Image credit: Baked Crab Cakes via photopin (license))
(Image credit: Baked Crab Cakes via photopin (license))

Years ago, while I worked for the university-run catering company at my alma mater, Radford University, I learned the recipe that we used for these amazing crab cakes! Where they got the recipe, I don’t know as they have been using it for well over a decade at this point. If anyone happens to recognize it, please let me know so we can give further credit to them. They can be made in any size you’d like (I’m making mine small enough to still be finger foods), the recipe is easily scalable, and these cakes can be prepared well ahead of time. Leftovers keep well, too! In addition to the crab cakes themselves, the creole remoulade topping is a really nice touch for adding an extra burst of flavor!


  • ½ lb Backfin Crab Meat
  • 1 lb Jumbo Lump Crab Meat
  • ¼ cup Chopped Parsley
  • ¾ cup Bread Crumbs
  • 1 large Egg
  • ¾ tsp Worcestershire Sauce
  • ¾ tsp Lemon Juice
  • ¾ tsp Seafood Seasoning
  • ¾ tsp Dijon Mustard
  • ½ cup Mayonnaise


Combine the egg, Worcestershire sauce, lemon juice, seafood seasoning, Dijon mustard and mayonnaise in a bowl.

Place the crab meat, parsley, breadcrumbs into a separate bowl. Mix lightly until combined. Add wet ingredients to the crab mixture and combine lightly. Portion into crab cakes and bake, broil, or pan fry until brown on both sides.

For the Creole Remoulade

  • 1 cup Mayonnaise
  • 4 Tbsp minced Cornichons
  • 2 Tbsp minced Red Onion
  • 2 Tbsp Capers, chopped
  • 2 Tbsp finely chopped Red Bell Peppers
  • 2 Tbsp finely chopped Yellow Bell Peppers
  • 2 tsp Minced Garlic
  • 2 Tbsp Fresh Lemon Juice
  • Salt, to taste
  • Black Pepper, to taste
  • Cayenne Pepper, to taste
  • Tabasco Sauce, to taste


Combine mayonnaise, cornichons, onion, capers, red and yellow peppers, garlic, and lemon juice in a bowl.

Add salt, black pepper, cayenne pepper, and Tabasco sauce to mixture.

Mix thoroughly and refrigerate.

Seaweed Wraps

Wrap sandwiches are some of my favorite snacks to make for parties. They’re usually fairly easy, have tons of filling options available, and can be served in varying sizes. For Talk Like A Pirate Day, I’m using smaller tortillas and serving these cut in half instead of serving them whole or as pinwheels. Listed below are some of my personal favorite recipes to use when making these!

Since I am calling these Seaweed Wraps to fit with my pirate theme, I wanted to incorporate as much of the theme into them as possible. While any kind of tortilla can be used, I opted to go with spinach wraps due to their green color. These can be purchased at various grocery stores or even made from scratch if you’re not pressed for time. (I have found that the homemade ones are far healthier than the store-bought ones as they contain more actual spinach in comparison) My favorite recipe to use when making my own is from Hot Pot Cooking and is as follows (you can also find tons of gluten free recipes for them online! One of my favorite ones is from Fork and Beans and can be found here):

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(image credit: Gravlax-1 via Edible Paradise)

As for fillings, these can be filled however you’d like! Chicken Caesar wraps, BLT wraps, all veggies, etc. However, again sticking with theme, I chose to reach back to my Scandinavian roots and use a combination of gravlax (smoked salmon will work too if gravlax aren’t available in your area or you don’t have time to make them), fresh herbs, and avocado. The recipe below is slightly modified from the one found on Webopskrifter.dk and is for 4, but can easily be scaled to fit the needs of your pirate crew!


  • 8 Spinach Tortillas
  • 1 8oz package of Cream Cheese
  • 1 lb Gravlax (or Smoked Salmon)
  • 4 Avocados
  • 2 bunch Dill
  • 4 bunches Parsley
  • 1 medium Red Onion
  • 1 lemon
  • Salt, as desired
  • Pepper, as desired


Spread a thin layer of cream cheese on the tortillas and sprinkle with salt and pepper. Cover half of tortilla with a few pieces of salmon/gravlax.

Slice the avocados lengthwise, remove the pit and skin. Cut avocado into slices and cover with lemon juice. Place avocado in a strip in the center of each wrap.

Finely chop the red onion and sprinkle it over the entire wrap (as much as desired – I don’t use very much as I like to be able to taste my gravlax!). Rinse the herbs and spread them evenly over the avocado.

Roll the wrap. Cut. Serve chilled.

If you’re like me, you also have some friends or small children in your group that don’t like fish. With this being the case, I am also making Thai Chicken Crunch Wraps using a recipe that I found on one of my favored food blogs: Tastes Better From Scratch. These wraps offer a healthy, fish free alternative for my picky land lubbers! Don’t like wraps or don’t have the time needed to roll them all? You can also make “crabwiches” from croissants using “eye picks” (these are my favorite or you can even make your own by gluing some googly eyes to the end of a regular wooden or plastic toothpick!) to bring your little crabs to life or “starfish sandwiches” using a star shaped cookie cutter to cut your sandwiches into the perfect sized, star-shaped finger sandwiches! Much like with the wraps, these can be filled however you like so they are easily adaptable to any dietary needs or desires!

Seashell Salad

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(image credit: 385764.jpg via WebstarauntStore, edited by KristaG )

Any favored pasta salad recipe can work for this concept. All that’s really needed is the shell pasta substituted in. However, I’ve been trying to find some healthier alternatives to suit my desired changes for my lifestyle and I came across a really good tropical fruit and pasta salad recipe online! The recipe below is my adaptation of it as I didn’t really care for the fruit flavored pasta they included in the recipe. I also used a more carbs-sensitive pasta as it is a dietary need in my household, but you can use whatever pasta you’d like! Not a fan of the idea of pasta and fruit mixed together? That’s okay! A plain fruit salad can be prepared rather quickly and can be labeled as “Chum” or “Pirate’s Booty” to help stick with the theme!


  • ½ lb Shell Pasta
  • 2 tsp Lemon Infused Olive Oil
  • 1 cup Fresh Pineapple, cut into bite-sized chunks (I make this optional as I really don’t care for pineapple)
  • 1 cup Grapes
  • 1 Kiwi, sliced into “half moons”
  • 1 cup Cantaloupe, cubed
  • ¼ cup Mint Leaves, minced

For the Sauce:

  • 1 Mango, cubed
  • 3 Tbsp Lime Juice
  • 2 tsp Fresh Ginger, peeled and grated
  • 1 Tbsp Honey
  • 3 Tbsp Apple Cider


Cook pasta in 6-8 quarts of boiling water for about 10-12 minutes. Do not overcook; you want the pasta to still be firm. Drain and place pasta in a large bowl.

Gently mix in sauce and fruits.

Cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate until thoroughly chilled.

Dead Men Tell No Tales 3-D Skull Cake

(photo taken and edited by KristaG)
(photo taken and edited by KristaG)

Bryton Taylor’s original, gluten free recipe for her Kraken Rum Cake can be found on her blog Food in Literature here. I’ve modified it somewhat to use what I had on hand at home as well as switched it over to the US system of measurement and temperatures.


  • 3 ½ cups All Purpose Flour
  • 1 ½ tsp Salt
  • 4 ½ tsp Baking Powder (trust me, this was the easiest way to have this conversion make sense on paper)
  • ½ cup Cocoa
  • 2 cup White Sugar
  • 1 cup of Butter, softened
  • ¾ cup Milk
  • ¾ cup Kraken Rum
  • 6 Eggs

For the Glaze

  • 7 Tbsp Butter
  • ¼ cup Water
  • 1 cup White Sugar
  • ¾ – 1 cup Kraken Rum
  • ¼ – ½ cup Dark Chocolate Melts (I ended up needing more than ¼ cup as I felt it needed more flavor to it)


Combine flour, salt, baking powder, cocoa and sugar in a large bowl.

Cut in softened butter and beat together with milk, rum, and eggs until all smooth.

Baking the cake is where it gets interesting. As you can see, I used a 3D skull pan (mine is Nordic Ware, but Wilton makes one too – Wilton also makes a mini 3D pan so you can make smaller versions of this as well!) so I simply followed the directions that came with the pan. This can be done with any shaped pan you choose to use. If not using a shaped pan, this cake can make two 9” cakes and should be baked at 350 degrees for 30-45 minutes.


In a saucepan, melt together the butter, water, white sugar, rum and dark chocolate melts. Stir constantly until all is combined.

Once cake and glaze have cooled, pour the glaze over the cake until all is used.

While making my 3D cakes, I also used a dark chocolate fudge filling to keep the pieces together. This recipe is meant for making single layer cakes so I improvised. If you don’t want to use a glaze, Kraken rum can also simply be added to your favorite icing recipe!

As a kid friendly alternative for dessert, “Gold Dabloons” are some of my favorite, easy things to make. Using a package or two of oreos (any flavor will do) and a can of edible gold food spray, these cookies are sure to be a hit! The best part? They only take seconds to make!

Carribean Sea Water

(Image taken and edited by KristaG)
(Image taken and edited by KristaG)

With all of these tasty snacks available, a very particular saying comes to mind: “water, water everywhere and not a drop to drink.” We don’t want that to be our situation so I’ve got several drinks on the menu for my cohorts, their kids, and myself! In addition to take care of those parched throats, what a better way to combat scurvy than with some citrus-y drinks? For those of age and desire, I have trussed up one of my favorite drink recipes with a new name to make it a little more “pirate-y.” The recipe below is for 1 drink, but can easily be scaled to fit the number of guests you have or even to fill a punch bowl!


  • 1½ oz Tequila
  • 1 ½ oz rum
  • 1 ½ oz vodka
  • 1 ½ oz Gin
  • 1 ½ oz Blue Curacao Liqueur
  • 1 splash 7-Up/Sprite/Sierra Mist
  • Sweet and Sour Mix


Build drink over ice. Fill with Sour Mix and add a splash of 7-Up.* Serve.

* If making in a punch bowl, add ice and 7-Up right before event begins.

For the younger rapscallions or those landlubbers who choose not to partake, a fun alternative to water (or, in the case of my party, “Lagoon Water”) is my Pirate Punch! A mixture of ginger ale and orange juice can go a long way. Want to make this into a cocktail too instead of a mocktail? Simply add some Vodka to the mix!